For me, fall and winter are the busiest seasons when it comes to shopping. I am a horrible gift giver. It takes me hours of planning and thinking about what I should get for someone for their gift before I can even go to the store. I feel that when I give someone a gift, they have to genuinely like it. I believe that time has to be put into finding the perfect give for others to show them that you truly care on that special day.
The weeks right before Christmas are the worst for me. What makes it horrible is that there’s not just Christmas to worry about. The majority of important people in my life have their birthdays or other special occasions in the late fall and winter seasons.
It all starts with my best friend’s birthday. Her birthday is on October 25 followed by my mom’s birthday on October 28th. Then, exactly one week later, it’s my parents’ anniversary. The week right after is my close friend’s birthday on November 16. I get a quick break for the last 2 weeks of November, but once it’s December, it all goes downhill once again. My grandpa’s birthday is the 2nd, my closest cousin’s birthday is the 19th, and of course, Christmas is the 25th. In 2 months, there are 5 birthdays and 2 other occasions.
My mom is also an indecisive gift giver. She comes to me for help, but I’m just as hopeless as her when it comes to giving gifts. While the holiday season can be fun, I also find it extremely stressful. I wish the important dates on which I have to give presents were more sporadically spread throughout the year.
12 months in one year and half of the important dates for me are spread within 2 months. Do you have a stressful time of year like this too? Does Christmas just stress you out sometimes?

I'm actually not one of those people who hates gift giving on principle; I know folks who hate the commercialization of Christmas and the expectations, but that isn't my issue. Like you said, I find gift giving difficult not because I don't want to spend the money, but because I have no idea what to get anyone. The only people who are easy to buy for are my mom, my husband, and my brother. Fortunately, unlike you, my mom is VERY good at gift picking so if I don't know what to get someone, she can usually offer suggestions (sometimes she'll even offer to buy it for me and I can just pay her for it LOL)
ReplyDeleteThat does sound really stressful! I'm lucky because most of my friends and family have birthdays in late spring, so all of the gift-giving occasions are spread out a little. My biggest difficulty is that because I'm on the younger side for my grade, I can't get my license for a while longer, so secret shopping is difficult. I have plans to go shopping with some of my friends tomorrow, so I'm hoping to find gifts for a lot of my family/friends then. Wish me luck!!
ReplyDeleteGood Luck, I hope you found some amazing gifts!
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